30.9.09

4 years of being SINGLE

rFor almost 4 years now, since my very first serious and very dysfunctional relationship, I am still spending each day with no one to call 'my special someone'. But, my being single for that long has never disheartened me in anyway; being single in a vast ocean of kissing couples is not that bad as what others think. I believe that having a partner doesn't assure contentment, happiness and LOVE.

My buddies think that watching a movie alone is sad and uncool. Take it from me, NO. I always watch a movie alone, not if you consider an upsized popcorn or Cokefloat a companion. LOL. At least, if you're single you go there for the movie and not to "makipag-lampungan" with your girlfriend.

I have to admit that being single in a group of couples makes me out of the picture sometimes. Everytime I see couples publicly displaying their affection, I ask myself "Why are you still single? You can have a girlfriend if you want to. You got the looks. You're a smart ass. You're romantic, thoughtful and caring. And most importantly, you're faithful." Hep! hep! No harsh comments are allowed. Remember, my conscience said that. It's not that i'm afraid to fall inlove and be hurt again. I just love the status I have now, SINGLE.

In the end, it all boils down to ourselves. While some choose the aggressive slash desperate way of lovehunt, I chose not to exert effort at all and just let destiny work for me. Yeah! I do believe in destiny. While some jump from one relationship to another, I just patiently wait. I opt to take the road less traveled --- to wait.

Just remember, being in a relationship or being single is just a matter of choice, OUR choice.

*** I'm sick while I'm writing this post. But, don't worry guys, I'll be fine.

:|.poOt!

52 comments:

ANIMUS said...

i agree!haha
wait!yes!im the first to comment...:)
off to work na 'ko jub.
before i handle calls i try to chiLlax mah self thru net.


:)
word verification:deatimpo
wakeke

Lawstude said...

you are still very young. marami ka pa maeexperience sa larangan ng pag-ibig at buhay. :)

dencios said...

tama si lawstude

ambata mo ba poot

ok lang yan, dadating ka dyan.

ako single, meron ba pede dito s bahay mo?

haha

chill ka lang ha :)

Walongbote said...

All the single boys! Now put your hands up.Hehe.. Napakanta tuloy aq..Hehe.

KRIS JASPER said...

Hey! Email me your fave foto and I'll make you a header if you want.

.pOot! said...

hi mark!

wooh. napapadalas ka dito ah. salamat. it's nice kasi you're just one of the few of my friends that knows this blog exists. :) hahaha.

goodluck sa work. ingat lagi.

.pOot! said...

hi kuya lawstude!

yeah! tama ka dyan kuya. bata pa ako. batang bata pa. maraming pang time. ang dapat kong gawin ngayon ay i-enjoy ang pagiging single ko. weh.

.pOot! said...

hi kuya dencios!

single ka? seriously? weh. maniwala.

dito sa bahay ko? uhmmm... puro na taken dito eh. lol. baka sa bahay ng iba meron :)

.pOot! said...

hi ate walongbote!

nice version of single ladies. hehe. i lab it.

*taas ng kamay at kaway-kaway*

.pOot! said...

hi kuya KJ!

really? haha. thanks thanks. i'll send it as soon as possible po.

cheers!

stormy said...

hello.. uuhhhmm.. behbeh ko? hahah

dahil baby ka pa at sweet ang muka mo.. ayos na yang behbeh ko, kahit cheesy..heheh

ayun! kamusta ka naman after ni ondoy?

wala naman masama sa single.. at natry ko na rin manuod ng sine mag-isa.. masaya naman pero muka kong tanga..mas-isa rin kasi kong tumatawa..heheh

ingat lage:)

pinkdiaries said...

hello poot, late naku naka tambay sa blog mu, i'll make comment tomorrow ha?!

be safe and God bless! :-)

lhen said...

ah eto pala ang gusto mong ipakita sa akin ha :-)

very well said my dear....
you right its a matter of choice...

"DESTINY IS A MATTER OF CHOICE NOT BY CHANCE"

pansin ko namang bata ka pa
kaya enjoy mo ang life...
hindi masama magkaroon ng isang ka relasyon basta alam mo ang limitasyon....

pero kase sa akin mas nakukuntento ako ng walang bf kase masaya naman ako kahit wala na akong boyfriend...

ang mahalaga naranasan ko ang magmahal at minahal....

mas love ko nga lang si bro....

REDLAN said...

Pareho tayo ng statu ngayon and I love it too. Walang responsibilites kasi.

Pwede ka gumala mag-isa,
pwwede ka matulog kahit ano oras,
pwede ka manood ng sine mag-isa
pwede ka kumain kahit ano oras,

pero minsan nakaka-miss rin yung may nag-aalaga,
may naglalambing
may inaaway.

destiny nga. at least naranasan na natin magmahal at masaktan.

gaya nga sabi ni lawstude, bata ka pa, marami ka pang ma-experience na love in the future. kaya goodluck

sows said...

ok lng yan ako nga mag 25 years na..


hehehe

Fr. Felmar Castrodes Fiel, SVD said...

you are still very young anak.

enjoy life. enjoy being single. sabi nga ni bea alonzo sa one more chance, "single and happy."

Jay.L said...

wag mong hanapin yang pag-ibig
kusa yang lalapit sau
tsaka sakit lang sa ulo yan
take it from me.


hehehehe..

pa-add pala sa link mo aah

:)

.pOot! said...

hi ate stormy!

haha. behbeh ko. cheesy nga pero mapagtiya-tiyagaan ko na. hehe.

oo nga ate. yun lang ang disadvantage ng single pag nanonood ng sine...

- magmumukha kang tanga kasi mag-isa ka lang tatawa lalo na 'pag comedy ang pinapanood mo

- wala kang kahati sa popcorn

- walang yayakap sa'yo kapag horror scenes na

hehe. pero oks lang yun.

.pOot! said...

hi ate pink!

don't worry ate, ok lang po yun :)

be safe always. cheers!

.pOot! said...

hi ate lhen!

single ka? weh. maniwala. hehe

kaya nga ate masyadong pa akong bata para sa mga ganito. haha. marami pang time. ngayong kelangan ko munang i-enjoy ang pagiging single ko habang di pa dumarating si "right girl".

thanks ate sa pagdaan.

.pOot! said...

hi kuya red!

yeah kuya. at least walang nagpapasaway satin ngayon. hehe.

pero nami-miss ko rin kasi ng may nilalambing ako. hehe. kapag nagkakatampuhan, sinusuyo. weh.

thanks sa pagdaan.

.pOot! said...

hi sows!

bago ka dito ah. thanks sa pagdaan :) nagkape ka man lang ba?

.pOot! said...

hi father fiel!

yeah you're right father. bata pa nga ako. studies muna. wew.

:) ingat po lagi father.

.pOot! said...

hi jay.L!

hahaha. sakit lang pala ng ulo. uhmmm... tama nga. LOL.

so, single ka ngayon?

Fr. Felmar Castrodes Fiel, SVD said...

right, wag magmadali sa relationships. they will come in God's time. stay single and happy. hehe may grabe, second nurse na blogger ka na aking nakilala.

The Nomadic Pinoy said...

Couldn't agree more with the ending statement. If you're happy being single right now, then enjoy it. It's your choice.

precious said...

chill lng pare...


spot d differences..

ang labo ko..

haha..


musta poooot? ^_^

taympers said...

best relationship comes last.

lei said...

ei padaan kaptid. buksan mo lang mata mo. malay mo anajan n pla sya hdni mo lang nkikita

Mr. Nonsense said...

ok lang yun. ang lalaki naman eh hindi nauubusan ng sperm cells kaya kahit 60 yrs old ka na eh pwede ka pa rin...:)
ay naku, sersoyo. i dont remember being 18 anymore.

arsean said...

ok lng maging single...(banat ng isa ding single...hahaha)

papasyal muna c tito arsean...hahahaha

.pOot! said...

hi father fiel!

i definitely agree father. the right girl will come on the right time. di ko kelangang magmadali ngayon. haha.

:) salamat po sa pagdaan.

.pOot! said...

hi nomad!

huwelkam back kokak! hahaha.

may tama ka! it's our choice, not our friends' nor our parents'.

.pOot! said...

hi ate precious!

weh! ano yun? haha. di ko naintindihan. haha.

ok lang ako ate precious. buhay pa naman. pero inuubo nga lang. kaw?

.pOot! said...

hi taympers!

oo nga naman. ngayon ko lang naisip yun. hahaha! salamat.

.pOot! said...

hi lei!

salamat kapatid sa pagdaan.

siguro nga i just need to open my eyes. baka nasa tabi ko na siya. hehe

.pOot! said...

hi mr. nonsense!

oo nga naman. kahit na siguro uugod-ugod na tayo eh pwede pa rin.hahaha.

thanks kuya sa pagdaan. :)

.pOot! said...

hi tito arsean!

matagal-tagal ka nang di nakakapasyal dito tito ah. medyo naging busy ka po ata ah. hehe!

daan po ako sa blog niyo mamaya. :)

precious said...

i mean, bka nmn kc s sobrang talino mo nabubulagan ka sa dame ng nakapaligid saung bebot bebot bebot...


malay mo ayang katabi mo n pla..
(hala katakot.. :lol: )

.pOot! said...

hi ate precious!

hala ka dyan!

di ako mahilig sa chicks eh. hehe. mas gusto ko yung geek-type. yung matalino ba. haha.

ANIMUS said...

thanks:)
woah..nahinto nanaman ako for few days pero here i go again!uhm.well,im the first to comment on this post and im thinking this will also the last(for this post)unless u comment back and that'll make it not last.hmmm...:)

word verification:merism(is this has a meaning?like state of being merry?LOL)

lhen said...

single ka? weh. maniwala. hehe-ayaw mong maniwala :-) abah ang kuleht na batang 'to paluin kita sa pwet nyan eh heheehe

basta study hard.... girls nandiyan lang yan pero ang edukasyon malaking treasure yan....

hindi naman hinahanap ang girl eh kusang dumadating sa life yan....

pero kung hindi mo tlaga mahanap baka sa bahay nila fr.fiel ka mas liligaya...hehehe naku bata kapa para marecruit ni padz....
hehehe cenxa na may dear nangungulit lang sayo ha
be safe....godbless

isthiscatchyenough said...

I am single for two straight years. My heart is hibernating. Waiting for someone to touch and bring a fresh start.

I dont like to exert effort too just to find a partner...

nice post dude! Mabuhay ang mga single! Mag popost ako ng mga reasons why are we still single..hahaha pls visit my blog.

http://deejslistofrandomness.blogspot.com

.pOot! said...

hi mark!

you're not the last. LOL.

about the word verification. uhmmm... maybe yes. hahaha.

.pOot! said...

hi ate lhen!

yeah. makakaasa ka po na studies muna ang priority ko. di naman siguro masama if i will be single for two more years habang nag-aaral ako.

di mo ba alam ate na pinangarap kong maging pari when i was still a kid. pero walang calling si bro. hehe.

.pOot! said...

hi dj!

"Waiting for someone to touch and bring a fresh start." - catchy

i lab it! LOL.

you're still 17, right? mas bata ka pa nga sakin eh. marami ka pang oras. just took the path that i'm taking today --- to search and to wait. hehe.

yeah. i will expect that post. :)

timangkey said...

Tama...

Dapat masaya kahit ano man ang status.=)

.pOot! said...

hi kuya timangkey!

i definitely agree with you. :)

salamat sa pagdaan.

yhen1027 said...

hi poot, bago sa bahay mo...

medyo ayaw mo naman sa dilim ano? hehe...

wala lang...

pwede din bang tumambay dito?

.pOot! said...

hi yhen!

salamat sa pagdaan :)

oo ba. sige lang, pwedeng pwedeng tumambay dito. basta kanya-kanyang timpla ng kape. hehe.

wait said...

New Here!

Masarap maging Single... Hehe

And Yes Its all a matter of CHOICE!
: )

Kura said...

Its a matter of choice? I beg to disagree with you all.. Hindi yan applicable pag girl =) hahaha! Bitter?!