rFor almost 4 years now, since my very first serious and very dysfunctional relationship, I am still spending each day with no one to call 'my special someone'. But, my being single for that long has never disheartened me in anyway; being single in a vast ocean of kissing couples is not that bad as what others think. I believe that having a partner doesn't assure contentment, happiness and LOVE.
My buddies think that watching a movie alone is sad and uncool. Take it from me, NO. I always watch a movie alone, not if you consider an upsized popcorn or Cokefloat a companion. LOL. At least, if you're single you go there for the movie and not to "makipag-lampungan" with your girlfriend.
I have to admit that being single in a group of couples makes me out of the picture sometimes. Everytime I see couples publicly displaying their affection, I ask myself "Why are you still single? You can have a girlfriend if you want to. You got the looks. You're a smart ass. You're romantic, thoughtful and caring. And most importantly, you're faithful." Hep! hep! No harsh comments are allowed. Remember, my conscience said that. It's not that i'm afraid to fall inlove and be hurt again. I just love the status I have now, SINGLE.
In the end, it all boils down to ourselves. While some choose the aggressive slash desperate way of lovehunt, I chose not to exert effort at all and just let destiny work for me. Yeah! I do believe in destiny. While some jump from one relationship to another, I just patiently wait. I opt to take the road less traveled --- to wait.
Just remember, being in a relationship or being single is just a matter of choice, OUR choice.
*** I'm sick while I'm writing this post. But, don't worry guys, I'll be fine.